My relationship with money has been a highly challenging one.
The thing about money… that can sometimes make it feel… hard… is this…
We are coming up against traumas from:
Being unsafe
Being unseen
Being unheard
Being disrespected
Being rejected
Being betrayed
Our bodies have experiences all of these painful memories of instances when these experiences were once our reality.
When what we value got ignored or pushed out…
Our perspective got silenced…
Our experience got denied… or was simply always invisible in the world around us…
Our boundaries were ignored or violated…
Our safety was threatened or never there in the first place…
Some of us have been denied our rights to safety, happiness and protection many times over throughout the course of our life. By the people who were supposed to love us most, and by the institutions that set the rules.
And that sh*t hurts. And it leaves scars.
And money is the perfect hotbed of its own unique kind of traumas… that becomes a playground of triggers for all of these underlying patterns of fear, anxiety and emotional wounding.
It’s triggering AF to navigate money & our work.
Because money is directly connected to our safety.
It takes work to re-learn emotional patterns of safety that allow the emotional noise to clear enough… to take the action… that allows us to create more safety with money.
Succeeding with money takes skill.
Skill that, like me, many of us have avoided because it has been too damn triggering to come up against all of those painful feelings that our body has simply wanted to protect us from experiencing again.
It hurts to not feel good enough.
It hurts to ask for what we want and hear ‘no’.
It hurts to put ourselves out there as who we really are, and then not feel seen – or worse – get rejected.
It genuinely hurts.
Which is why it can seem so much easier and more convenient to hide.
We hide in the socially acceptable.
We hide in how everyone else is doing it.
We hide in the projected image of ourselves that has been comforting to others up until now.
But that is the opposite of freedom.
And our desire for money is really a desire for freedom. And it starts with breaking free from our own internal mechanisms of self-protection.
We hold the keys to our freedom.
We have the power to build skill and build wealth.
We have the power to do whatever the eff brings us the MOST joy… despite how many of our internal parts might be screaming at us to stay nice and safe, and hidden.
I’m sharing the exact habit-stacking process that allowed me to break free and build the skills to hit my first 6-figure year in a business built on passion, alignment & feelings of freedom.
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